How do you seduce anybody you want to (whether male or female)? How do you get other people to do what you want them to? My name is Claude Massey and I am a life coach and a career counselor in Tel Aviv Israel. I want to talk / write a little bit about the art of seduction.
Why? Because what is more important in life than being able to influence and seduce other people?
If you’re looking for a life partner, or trying to find a new job…
If you want to make new friends, if you want to get a raise at work…
You need to know how to influence and seduce.
So let’s get into it!
One Key Thing about the Art of Seduction…
Firstly, be yourself. This video is not for the phonies or the actors. I don’t want you to have to change who you are to increase the seductiveness of your character.
Being your authentic real self is extremely seductive. You are especially seductive when you are able to display different seductive aspects of your character, the right way at the right time.
The Right Way at the Right Time…
Yes, what that last statement means is that being fully transparent is not a good thing. You need to be able show certain aspects of your natural character, at certain times.
Firstly, here are just a few characteristics of your current personality that you should display…
- Be Direct (don’t talk too much).
- Maintain a Level of Seriousness (don’t be overly sarcastic).
- Be Funny (but don’t be silly).
Just a little taste of each one of these characteristics above, will take you a long way.
Tip: You don’t want to be anything too much. Why? Because too much of anything in life, is not a good thing.
Secondly, Don’t Forget to Smile.
Sounds like simple advice, “don’t forget to smile”. However, let’s take a second to examine the concept of what a smile really is.
A smile can say so much behind it. A smile can show that you’re kind, caring, empathetic, and a great listener.
Having a huge smile, and showing it when you want to be seductive is not going to give the impression that you’re all of these great characteristics. What you want to do is show that you have a mentality of friendliness.
So how do you say those things with just a smile?
For this example, let’s make a points scale with 100 being a big smile where you show all of your teeth, and 1 being a tiny smirk. The seductive smile is about a 40.
Another Element of Being Seductive is showing that you are a Problem solver…
If you’re somebody who can take an issue and resolve the issue well that’s seductive. People want to be around others that can help them solve problems. What you want to do is show that you have a mentality of helpfulness.
Show that you’re there for people, and you’re dependable. Show that you are of excellent character, and are a person of strong willpower.
So how do you seduce anybody you want, by showing you are a problem solver?
Maintain Eye Contact. Keeping your eyes locked on the person you are speaking with, shows commitment, a state of presence and that you are a willing and able individual.
In conclusion, I hope you learned a thing or two inside of this article / video. Now go out there and practice! Finally, if you are looking for a life coach in Tel Aviv, Israel you know whom to contact.
-Claude Massey Consulting, Always Be Growing…
How to Seduce Anybody You Want! (Male or Female)